I'm disabling the ability to make comments on my blog, since the person who's still leaving "joke" comments got defensive about being "caught. They decided to turn nasty by making fun of a part of my life that seems to be funny to them, but actually was a time that both meant a lot to me, and was hard.
Come to think of it, that was behind the other two "comments". Given they were centered around the same thing. It's just the first ones weren't quite so pointedly, defensively mean.
Here's the point: Humor is only funny if both parties involved find it so.
If it's at the other person's expense, that's not humor. That's being hurtful and mean. That's why you're "lurking" -- you know it's not funny and so you don't want your name or face attached to it.
That's also why you're pissed off (misdirectedly so, as it's aimed at me) and getting nasty.
But, still. Even though I may understand where it's coming from, the other point is that real and true friends don't pull that kind of BS in the first place.
And don't think I don't have an idea who it is, because there's only two people on my blog list who could know about that part of my life.
One of them would never do this because she doesn't have the specificity of the details being used. So that only leaves the other person.
If anyone ever wants to make a comment about something I've written, email me.
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